Tommorow I will make a follow up call to the man in my group who has developed an interest in me. I will be asking him to move to another group. I'm sure this will disappoint him but I feel that if he remains he will live on "hope." Eish. I speak from experience. One difficult lesson I've learned is that men cannot shepard women and vice versa. It creates a strange dependency. This situation will have to be dealt with carefully. I'm a little disappointed. I phoned my leader a few days ago with (what I felt was) a pretty urgent plea to give me a call. No call. (sigh) I would love some good advice right about now...